Process of growing of the teenager is called awkward age, it is the natural temporary period in formation of the identity of each person. It is necessary only to wait it with the smallest losses.
1. For a start it is quite good to calm down and allow your child to make its own first mistakes. It is possible to write down it in fight section, in a circle of dances, figure skating, singing, drawing and anything that to it will be to liking, or to send him to club on interests. They can be found in the Internet, people communicate not only with each other in virtuality, but also meet, staging different shows, contests, concerts, representations.
2. It is possible to buy for a holiday a long-awaited thing for the child's hobby. A guitar or an easel with brushes, even the game console, the motorcycle or a skateboard. All this will force to put energy on the right track and such difficult period will allow to pass in life of each person least painfully.
3. Also you need to learn, than your child lives and is fond, perhaps, joint pastime will do all good. It is possible to take a vacation during summer vacation and to jerk at the sea or to mountains. Such joint trips well bring together, it will allow to relieve the tension and will eliminate disagreements.
4. Release a situation more often. Should not be just as it is necessary. The opinion of the child needs to be considered at least sometimes too even if it in your opinion absolutely incorrect. To understand what occurs in the head of the teenager, quite difficult, but after all it is real if to add creativity and a little interest.