The uncertainty of the child is most often shown that he is less sociable, one often sits, is afraid to take active part in childish sports, it has few friends. The task of parents is to help it to overcome shyness and uncertainty. Otherwise there is a risk that in the future such child will have many problems already in adulthood.
Instruction
1. The diffident child in the company of strangers can even begin to panic. It sometimes is provoked by lack of skills of human relationship. In such cases children hide the fear and discomfort behind excessively active, cavalier and energetic manners. Form at the child self-confidence since early years. It will help also with fight against the similar phenomenon, and with prevention of such problems. Create houses the favorable atmosphere. Help the kid not to be afraid of the outside world, having surrounded it with heat and care.
2. To strengthen self-reliance and own forces, force the child to solve difficult, but feasible tasks. Help it to pass all tests and to achieve positive result. Do not abuse it for the made mistakes. Explain to him that all people "stumble" and from the first to time to make everything correctly very not easy. But thus it is possible to find invaluable life experience.
3. Never abuse the child for manifestation of personal qualities and also do not discuss at it with surrounding his offenses and oversights. Do not deride its weaknesses at all. Try to find strong qualities in the kid and develop them in the right direction.
4. Save the child from shyness by means of development in it of an adequate self-assessment and feeling of own importance. Children who have problems in the field very often are exposed to criticism and then long and painfully endure it in themselves. Remember that to the child it has to be comfortable alone with the inner world.
5. Develop active living position at the kid. It will secure him against shyness, uncertainty and shyness. The inaction engenders shyness in children. Try to change behavior model of the child, but not his character and the personality.
6. Fence off it from various stresses and alarms. You watch clothes and a hairstyle of the kid that they were not the cause for sneers among his age-mates. But at the same time avoid social isolation. Give to the child free access to information (of course, in a reasonable framework). It will teach him to keep up any conversation.