In order that the child grew up successful and psychologically steady person, it is important that parents were for him good friends. Therefore it is worth planning summer vacation so that these friendly relations became stronger.
And the amount of time spent to a vmeyosta how many its a kayochestvo is important here not so much. We prepared for you several councils how to strengthen the relations with rebenyoky during summer vacation.
Plan rest together
Happens so that children otyokazyvatsya to participate in family holiday, poyoty that to them "neinteresyono". And if parents have to press and force, then about what strengthening of the relations can there be a speech? PoetoYom needs to involve the child in planning of semeyyony rest. Choosing together with parents a route, hotel, rassmayotrivy photos of inyoteresny places, the child any more not "will go to refusal".
Still council: for the child it is more important not to look, and to climb, touch, float, ride, to do something by the hands. Then pleasant experiences (and in the future - the general memoirs) will become those "bricks" of which there are kind relations.
Make friends with his (her) friends
Summer vacation should be used to adjust otyonosheniye with friends of the daughter or the sonny (especially if they already grew up). To be quiet for the child, the nobility where he and with whom, it is necessary to invite to himself to the house of his (her) friends. And if the last are not pleasant to you? Then it is especially necessary to make it! Communicate with them, listen, ask, only do not moralize. Communicating with d the child's ruzyam, you buyodt better to understand the child, and you will have more opportunities to influence a situation. If you not delighted with the friend or the girlfriend, do not say at all: "It gluyopy and angry". State the judgment only of a konkretyony act, having told as the true friend would arrive.
Devote the child in a subtlety of the family budget
Psychologists are sure: in the summer the child has to have a rest from an ucheyoba! During vacation it is better to tell on "adult" subjects, for example, a subject of money. It will be interesting to your child to learn how you earn as you plan the family budget, etc. It is possible to take the child in bank and to explain point of the simplest operations. It is possible to bring to the level of economic education even a usual campaign in mayogazin. Teach not just to take products from the shelf, and to obrayoshchat attention to the price and "to meet" the budget. Having become a source of useful knowledge, you will lift the avtoriyott in the opinion of the child, so, strengthen your relations.