Kindergarten - very important stage in life of the little person. It is its first collective, the first skill of training, the first experience of loneliness and interaction with foreign people. That everything passed successfully, the child should be prepared correctly for sharp turn in life.
Instruction
1. Create a positive image of kindergarten for several months prior to its visit. Tell the child about interesting classes, about new toys which wait for him in this new and mysterious place. Walk with it by the playground where it will play then. Talk about in what children as far as he wants to do the same are engaged there. It is better to select subjects of a talk, proceeding from character of the kid. If it reaches for other children, place emphasis on that how many new friends at it will appear. If the child is inclined to independent classes, interest him in new knowledge. Show that by means of a garden he will become as the adult. Mom with dad work, and the garden will be children's work. However, if parents do not respond kind words about the duty station, then it is better not to use this reception.
2. In the first week leave the child in kindergarten only at several o'clock. Explain to him that mom will return soon. Let the kid will get used that there is no mom some time nearby. That to the child it was quieter, take a toy to which it is tied from the house. If in kindergarten do not allow to bring toys, let it will remain in a locker. The main thing that the kid knew that it has a support and "company". If the child hardly leaves mom, try the first week to send him to a garden with dad. Then alternate. Surely talk to the child and explain to him why you should leave.
3. If parting happens to parents painfully, stock up with patience. It is impossible to become angry, order to become silent or raise the voice. It you only worsen a situation. Use several simple receptions. Put the kid to yourself on knees, press to yourself, stroke. Tell that you understand him, but that your parting is necessary. Ask or assume why he so was upset. Listen and dispel his fears. Draw interesting prospect for the evening when you come to take away it. Think up the procedure of farewell together with the child. It can be as a traditional, but obligatory kiss in a cheek, and there can be the whole confidential ceremony. Observance of rituals helps to endure the most difficult moments in life.