Unwanted pregnancy - a stress for any woman. It is not so simple to think "the cold head" in a similar situation, but it is necessary to make the decision. And therefore it is necessary to get it together and to weigh all pros and cons, deciding to leave nevertheless the child or to choose abortion.
The first, and at once unforeseen, pregnancy
Good sex yet not the guarantor of the happy future together what young girls quite often forget about. And when in a rush of passion there is an embarrassment and contraceptive brings, young persons at once begin to dream of how they with darling will call the firstborn. It is good still when the guy not against creation of family and what to do when against?
Certainly, at first it is necessary to throw the guy, and then already to assess a situation. If there is an opportunity to provide the child, to find for him time, age any more not when there is a wish to walk and hang out, then unambiguously to give birth. In the return situation the undesirable child will be really superfluous in your life therefore it is better to make abortion.
It is not necessary to be afraid it of the scary term. Abortion - it is not sick and bad consequences from it most often do not happen if, of course, to carry out the procedure in good clinic at experienced experts.
It is better to decide on abortion on early terms, then the probability not to receive complications after abortion tends to zero.
When not the husband became the reason of pregnancy unloved or favourite, but
In this case besides everything rests to age and other circumstances of your life. You are afraid of the husband? Do not you want in marriage for unloved? Fell the victim of violence? It is unambiguously necessary to make abortion then not to regret about the birth of the unwanted child. Well still before making a fatal choice, to consult to possible future father, or to close people. Being under an impression of news that you risk to become soon a mom, it is possible to do the mass of mistakes and then to be sorry about them. Both the young girl, and the adult successful woman is ready for spontaneous incorrect decisions in a similar situation. Therefore do not overestimate yourself, though you should not consult on the first comer too.
It is important not to tighten since the more term, the is less probability of an opportunity to get medical permission to abortion.
To make the decision, to leave the child or to make abortion, irrespective of a situation, it is necessary to ask itself the main issue: whether I am ready to become a mother? If the answer to it affirmative, so to you it is not necessary and to think of abortion because then more than once it is necessary to regret about deeds. And here that who is not confident in readiness to give rise, be careful mom, to change pampers and in general to give up as a bad job the private life at least for few years of a maternity leave, doors in gynecologic office on operation of removal of a fruit are always open.