For the egoist his personal needs and interests are on the first place. Such person seldom cares for someone else, except own person. The behavior this individual can restrain and offend people around, even without noticing it.
Egoism reasons
Some people become egoists in the childhood because of excessive attention of parents, grandmothers, grandfathers and other relatives. If it is too strong to indulge the child at early age, it is possible that, having matured, it will not reckon with the interests of other people.
If not to bring up the child properly, not to show severity and not to impart to him the concept about moral values, maybe, in further life of people will not even understand that it behaves not really beautifully.
The reasons of egoism are that the person constantly follows the tastes of own desires and whims. He often lives some emotions and does not think of people around. On the first place the egoist puts personal comfort, and such concepts as "conscience", "justice" and "ethics" pushes far away.
Signs of egoism
The egoist tries to make so that to him it was good. In it there is also a good point, happens that at egoists big ambitions which force them to try to obtain success in life are observed. Egoists love that they were praised and distinguished among others therefore they quite often try to be on the ball in professional sense or to gain the lead in collective. On a behavior manner it is possible to distinguish the egoist too. He steadily reduces all topics of conversation to own person. Besides, the egoist very much loves himself, in every possible way cares for the appearance and sometimes even admires own reflection. Extreme degree of egoism is called egocentrism. In this case the person becomes absolutely intolerable for other members of society. He is so keen on himself and is absorbed by thoughts of himself that sometimes ceases to notice what is created around. It is unlikely it is possible to expect that such individual will bring someone benefit or will try to make disinterestedly a kind act for people around. He considers that he incredibly makes happy other people with what just exists. The person with egocentric outlook sometimes seriously believes that all life turns around it, and people around are necessary for achievement of its purposes, entertainment and adulating of his person. Sometimes the individual himself suffers from own egoism. It can be deprived of joy to love someone or consciousnesses that thanks to it to other person it is good. Some egoists vaguely realize that something in life passes by them, and think of changing. The person can become less selfish if begins to be interested in the fate of other people. Sometimes the birth of the child or other need to care for someone helps to become more responsible and sensitive to the individual. Here then he can forget a little about own requirements and to become another.