Most of parents are sure that punishment for the child - it is sick, offensive and humiliating. But it is possible to punish the child differently, for example, a conversation or even the instructive fairy tale.
The conflicts and the subsequent to them punishments - perhaps, the most unpleasant in education of the child. Some claim that it is strictly forbidden to punish the child, others with ease slap guilty and send to a corner. Whether it is necessary to punish the child and how to do it it is correct? Let's try to understand. If the child passes all framework of permitted, does not listen to adults or rushes on mom with fists, it is possible to punish and it is necessary.
Physically punishments. When parents beat the child and stand in the corner for the slightest fault, the kid does not understand essence of the conflict. Mom and dad claiming that it the most expensive and favourite, behave absolutely not typically. In most cases the diffident teenagers who often have the underestimated self-assessment grow up from such kids.
Shouts. Trying to inform the child of a mistake in his behavior, most of adults begin to shout. Such behavior of the adult frightens, upsets and upsets the child. It is sometimes rather simple to put the child nearby and just to talk.
Fright. It is impossible to frighten the child in case of disobedience by the Baba-yaga, the bad uncle, orphanage and so forth. In such cases, children just cease to trust parents, mom who is most loving and dear is ready to give the child to someone.
Deprivation something promised. If promised the kid a toy, a campaign to the park or cinema, and in punishment deprived of it, the kid can apprehend it even heavier, than physical punishment. In such cases, it is necessary to estimate adequately there corresponds punishment to perfect offense.
Fairy tale as punishment. Fairy tales can also be used as an education element. It is rather simple to pick up the work with a similar situation. Thus, the baby himself will find a solution in the created situation and will improve situation.
Informal conversation – too one of ways of punishment. For this purpose one of parents it is necessary to remain with the child alone and to ask in detail, than the child motivated, making any given offense for what he made it and so forth. Then it is necessary to tell quietly in what there were mistakes how to correct consequences. Such behavior of the adult is capable to prevent similar offenses and desire to play pranks for harm.