"I want to become happy", - such desire of many women is quite natural and justified. The set of cares, problems and difficulties always falls to female lot. To be able to cope adequately with them and at the same time to enjoy life – true art. But each of us, regardless of circumstances can comprehend it. The main thing is to leave sad mood and not to question at the sky "when I become happy", and to take everything in hand and to independently create the happiness.
How to become happy in love?
The first and main reason of all female misfortunes is a tendency to accuse men of everything. A part of the truth here, of course, is present. Not each representative of a fine half of mankind can hold emotions in the hand and to be able to keep silent when in soul the indignation boils. However secrets how to become happy in marriage, are quite simple:
- Remember that our life consists of trifles. And if your husband scatters the socks, things and boots, it does not mean that he does not respect your work. If he comes later than usual home and does not warn about it, it does not mean that to it all the same, you worry or not. Accept a thought of what you different and think differently of. Do not pay attention to a disorder and be not verified with hours when you wait for it arrival home. And do not wait at all. Go about the own business.
- Kill in yourself the slightest hint on suspiciousness. If it was called in the middle of the night by the colleague, so it was really necessary. Do not check its phone and mail. Do not make rows of jealousy and shadowing. Most of women prefers not to know about affairs of the blessed at all. Be also you in this majority, live quietly.
- Do not strike male vanity. It is clear, that is often chattered to reproach the husband with his mistakes once again. But as soon as you will begin to criticize him, in his brain the protection will work and he will not even hear what you speak about. Better once again flatter it, and he will make what you half a year tried to obtain, demanding and making scandals.
- Do not take offense at insufficient attention from its party. He loves you, but in own way, as a real man. Remember that our beloved always were and will be avaricious on manifestation of feelings. Let him be silent and does not write love messages. But he comes every evening home and with pleasure is extended on a sofa. And it means that in soul at it rest – the best confirmation that to it it is good near you.
How to become happy after the divorce?
If at you there came crisis in the family relations, marriage broke up and you became lonely, just right to think how to become happy after the divorce. You can even not doubt that it is real. Just try to look at life a little differently.
For a start, say goodbye to offenses of the past. Practice shows that the women who are long storing in themselves a negative after the divorce are ill much more often and have oncological diseases. Address the psychologist or organize a ritual of farewell to the past. For example, write everything that disturbs you, burn the list and dispel downwind.
If you do not represent how to become happy without man, estimate all pluses from such life:
- You do not need to adjust life, to go on compromises, to step sometimes on own pride. Your life - only at your disposal.
- Look back and you will see how many unmarried women perfectly feel without spouse. And whether those who are in marriage are happy? Controversial issue.
- If your girlfriends married, it is enough to talk at least to one of them to understand how it is heavy to live them with a stamp in the passport, but with children on hands and the husbands never helping.
- You do not need to stand for hours at a plate, to erase mountains of linen, to pack things on all apartment. At that moment you probably dreamed of the romantic relations and dinners by candlelight? So at you still ahead. Now the road is open for new feelings!
- At last, rediscover yourself and show to the world! Look in a mirror and firmly promise that you will not see in it the woman who was tired and tortured by life any more. Better seriously approach a question how to become the healthy and happy woman who enjoys everyone lived in the afternoon. Sport, fitness, meetings with friends, travel, trips on shops. All this in open access at arm's length. Take and use!
If all of you do not know yet what to make to become happy, decide on the purposes. What it is necessary for you for entire happiness? And what gives you pleasure? What do you want and can make for yourself favourite? Answer yourself these questions, and the formula of your personal happiness will open to you in all beauty! And, above all, occupy yourself with a set of pleasant and interesting cases that this silly question any more never prevented you to enjoy life.
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