Waking up in the mornings, you with horror imagine the working day and try to persuade yourselves to go there where you do not want to be well in any way. So repeats day by day and it seems that life is in vain and the end to this horror will never be. If described above about you, then safely accept congratulations - such people on the planet more than a half. Why people do not want to work? And what to do with this difficult problem? Let's try to find the reasons and to give the answer to this vital issue.
Why I do not want to work?
The rejection problem from work at many begins at teenage age. For example, students, handing over the regular long and difficult session, deeply sighed: ""I do not want to study, I want to work"" and dreamed when that treasured day of obtaining the diploma and employment comes. And here that long-awaited day comes – work is found and, it seems, brings income, and all the same something is not right. And the same yesterday's students begin to complain in a new way: ""I do not want to work with people, at office, for kopeks on the specialty"", etc. Everything comes to an end crown ""I do not want to work in general"" and the subsequent dismissal. Why does that happen and nobody wants to work? Really almost all people are forced to drag miserable existence in that place which to them is not pleasant or to be in eternal search? To understand how to find a way out of a similar situation, it is important to find the reasons for which work ceased to bring pleasure. The main of them, as a rule, lie on a surface:
- Incorrectly chosen specialty. Most often it happens so that in 17 years it is still quite difficult to understand what future we want to provide to ourselves. Going to the university, most of teenagers are guided by prestigiousness of a profession or at all rely on the decision of parents. As a result work on the specialty chosen accidentally can become the real penal servitude and does not bring any pleasure.
- The second widespread case – work not in the specialty, but with lack of career development and apparent defect of knowledge. In such place constantly it is necessary to address for advice which is given reluctantly. Besides without the prospect of growth many begin to feel fatigue and to miss frankly.
- Often complaints like ""I do not want to work more"" it is possible to hear from those who chose occupation not to liking. Even if it is the good company and there not bad pay, occupation in itself can cause disgust and unwillingness to grow and try to promote.
It is possible to list reasons for refusal of work infinitely. The bad salary, lack of growth and personal hostility to a profession is only a little bit of explanations with which those who decided to leave justify themselves. But I want money to live by the rule "", but I do not want to work"" it would be too simple. Money is not on a silver platter so though some efforts for their acquisition after all need to be made. It is for this purpose important to resolve for itself two issues: ""why I do not want to work?" "and" "what to do?"". To find the reason independently of a problem will not make. And here with the solution of the second question the following advice can quite help:
- If you resolved to leave that profession which bothered you, well think what to change it for. Your new activity can be even worse than that that was. Therefore accurately define what you want in this life.
- For change of the specialty which is unsuccessfully chosen in higher education institution it is not obligatory to get higher education again. Today there is a huge number of courses, trainings and remote education which can be received even without leaving the house.
- Carefully think over on what you will live if you leave former work. For certain the best option would be to solve for itself what occupation will make not only profit, but also pleasure and to prepare the soil for transition to this activity even before dismissal.
- Sometimes a great way to understand whether this work is necessary to you is a long holiday. Change scenery and already during rest solve – whether you will miss the work. It is quite possible that you just overworked and were tired. If your answer is categorically negative, devote a holiday to search of new work.
- If you belong to number of those people who are seduced by no work, and you consider the best occupation a dream and rest, then you will be helped only by the sponsor. Find to yourself the person who will provide you, and enjoy life.
Whatever option you chose, do not forget that only work contribute to the spiritual and physical development. Work it not only source of income and guarantee of further existence. First of all is a way to realize the abilities given us at the birth. Find to yourself work which will bring pleasure and you should not work any day.
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