Many women consider that the stamp in the passport designates that more does not need to be done nothing any more, the objective is achieved. They are mistaken. Marriage can be compared to routine and sometimes even boring work. Many couples at the first problems run to file the application for a divorce, forgetting that the family is a building and this building needs to be begun anew if there are problems.
Love and happiness how to reach them?
1. It is not necessary to try to remake "half". The character of the person is built up early enough. We anyway were late why to spoil own nerves and nerves of the spouse? The wise woman will transfer the spouse's shortcomings to category of small pranks which it is so easy to forgive to children.
2. It is necessary not to forget about the word "thanks". It will not cost anything to you, and it will be pleasant to darling.
3. It is necessary to maintain the reputation always. Even it is necessary to try to remain beautiful at home. The worn-out slippers, hair curlers and a dressing gown became the reason of many unfaithfulness and destroyed more marriages, than treason for other reasons.
4. Sexual life - it is very important. The wise wife also becomes a mistress to the husband. She will make everything that the spouse even did not think to look "on the left".
5. You find common interests. If they are absent, it is necessary to create them. It is impossible to assume that you stopped being interesting each other. Photography, campaigns with tents, movies, music, sport – such hobbies will unite more, than a notorious stamp in the passport.
6. It is impossible to act rashly. The conflicts in family – it is normal. But at their emergence it is necessary to give and to state to the spouse the point of view. Often the conflicts arise just because of misunderstanding.
7. Give yourself a little freedom. You should not charge yourself with everything, to become a dray horse. The droplet of freedom will grant to you a respite, and to your family – joy because the wife is happy – the husband and children are happy.
Psychological portrait of happy spouses
- both work;
- everyone has the place a privacy where nobody will disturb it;
- carry wedding rings;
- live without strict rules in the relation to each other;
- quietly discuss the problems.
Certainly, it is only an approximate formula by means of which it is possible to construct successful marriage. At each family everything is individual, but the most important – it is necessary to love each other, to be to each other attentive and always and in all each other to respect.