"All age are obedient to love" … Therefore someone gets married as soon as he is executed 18, and someone, having met love later, goes to the REGISTRY OFFICE closer by 40 years. However many was years to newlyweds, everywhere there will be pluses and minuses.
According to more than a half of couples get divorced within several years after marriage. The main reason as sociologists consider, the unavailability of people to this serious step is. Dreams and illusions break against gray everyday life and life. Whether happiness of family life depends on age of newlyweds?
Early marriages
Some couples marry at the age of 18-19 years. The reasons for which young people decide to connect themselves by family bonds at so early age, most often the following: unplanned pregnancy, strong love or a protest against adults.
The young age of spouses has the pluses. Lyubov before loss of reason helps couple to endure the conflicts and difficulties of family life. Strong nerves and flexibility of characters allow to look for compromises in a conflict situation, to go quickly for reconciliation, but not to hold the ground, having strong beliefs. Young age of the girl – great advantage if to think of future replenishment of family. The best childbearing age falls on 20-27 years.
Where there are pluses, there are also minuses. Just yesterday young people saw off the whole nights in clubs and carefree spent the money for entertainments, and today it is necessary to think of family, to earn independently a living, to pay bills and to be in charge of housekeeping. Not all are ready to such turn of events.
Middle age for marriage
Average age of spouses – from 23 to 28 years. As a rule, marrying at this age, newlyweds realize all gravity of intentions. Work which brings income is already had. Are better prepared for appearance of children of the spouse. Besides financial security plus this age that at people the living position for education of children was already created. At the same time installations and the principles rather flexible to smooth conflict situations between spouses. Problems in marriage can arise because of a discrepancy of interests and values. If one of spouses wants to live at first for himself, and the second dreams of strong family with children.
Late marriages
Marriages after 30 years consist, being based not on ardent passion and inspiration love, and on mutual calculation. In such marriages, as a rule, everything is thought over to trifles: from the family budget to obligations for the house. But it does not prevent marriage to become strong, long and happy. The independence, security, the accumulated life experience and a maturity of spouses belong to pluses of this age. From minuses – difficulties with pregnancy incubation, sidelong glances of the public, the settled views and habits. The person after 30 years cannot almost be changed. Whatever the age at which people decided to start a family, the most important that they were ready to it was.