It is considered to be that the young man has to try to obtain love and attention of the girl, and she needs only to sit and wait when her prince charming appears and will begin to look after her beautifully. However in reality the girl can sigh furtively about the pleasant young man, and he will not pay attention to it. In a similar case it is better for girl to take the initiative and most to achieve reciprocity.
Instruction
1. There are several receptions checked by time allowing to cause reciprocal feeling in the young man. First of all, it is necessary to become for it the good friend. The girl should listen carefully to the young man, to give to him useful tips, to help with the solution of the arising problems, to praise it and to pay compliments (men love them not less, than women). The young man has to get used that it is always possible to rely on the girl, she will always help and will support him.
2. An important point in achievement of mutual understanding is the community of interests. It is good if the girl learns everything about interests and hobbies of the young man and will try to share them. Then they will always have general subjects for a talk, and the girl considerably will rise in estimation of the elect.
3. However in the aspiration to friendship with the young man the girl should not forget about self-respect at all. If the young man begins to treat it haughtily, affords pejorative statements in its address, it is better to stop acquaintance at once. Of course, sadly to leave a dream, but the union with the person who does not respect the companion all the same will not bring it happiness.
4. If the girl was convinced that the elect is worthy her love, he communicates with it with due respect and a step, they managed to become kind friends, it is time to take the following step. It is necessary to disappear for some time from his life, for example, to be away on vacation. It is quite possible what during this time the young man realizes as the girl is dear to him as strongly he misses her, and after her return the relations will develop in absolutely other, more romantic key.
5. There is also other way to achieve reciprocity, absolutely other than previous. It is a so-called "contrast shower". In communication with the young man the girl has to alternate ardent passion and cold inaccessibility. At first it is possible to appear before it in a courageous and effective dress, to dart promising glances, to coquet frankly with it. Another time it is necessary to change the behavior, having become reserved, strict and unapproachable.
6. Similar change will set the young man thinking on by what it can be caused. For his vanity will become blow that it stopped being subject to so passionate worship. If after a while the girl becomes friendly again, will start with it an easy conversation, it is quite possible that he, at last, will begin to show an initiative. If it does not happen, the girl should recognize the defeat. Well, in any case, she will not amuse long months or years herself with illusions, expecting reciprocity from the young man for whom it is absolutely indifferent.