Without trust strong, sincere and open human relations are impossible. It is measured by readiness of the person to tell about the experiences, pleasures and cares. Especially it is not simple to reach trust between unfamiliar people.
Instruction
1. Communicate much. Than people spend with each other more time and the more speak on various subjects, the quicker they will begin to feel quietly and relaxedly in the company of each other, and it will promote the beginning of trusting relationship.
2. Begin the first. That between people the trust developed, someone has to begin it to show. Let in your relations the initiative will be on you. You share the experiences, consult on the guy, be interested in his opinion – a word, show that you are ready to make contact and to deepen your relations, developing trust.
3. Show that your relationship is expensive to you. Of course, if to assure of it the person day by day, then he can doubt your intentions and sincerity. Instead take for the rule in a talk with others to protect the guy and to support his decisions. Even if it is given you hardly – do not give up, but act this way only in case really you have internal conviction in what you tell and you do.
4. Do not gossip. Never dare to speak negatively of the guy in conversations with others and also be not accustomed "to wash up in a talk with it bones" to people. Remember that if the person speaks with someone about others, then he also speaks to others about that with whom he gossips. It is the invariable principle and the clever guy will manage to distinguish your tendency to excessive garrulity.
5. You appreciate even small trust. Do not accept readiness of the guy shares with you the thoughts as due. You need to understand that it is given to most of guys much more difficultly, than to women. Therefore do not forget to thank it for the introduced ideas and in trifles show that are worthy trust – do not distribute information heard from it.
6. Show patience. The person cannot begin to trust automatically. He has to feel soul that he is located to you. Therefore it is necessary to have patience and to wait until your guy notices your efforts and also it will be ready to trust you. Even if on it more time will be required, than you thought, do not despair, such trust will not disappear because of a small quarrel or misunderstanding.