If desired the woman can provide to family continuous ""war"" or, on the contrary, almost cloudless world. The first option not the best. Scandals, hysterics, mutual reproaches, quite perhaps, will lead to a divorce. The second option more reasonable, but demanding considerable expense of forces and ability to agree with the husband.
Instruction
1. Learn to control the emotions. Women often have talent ""to saw"" the husband, constantly expressing discontent with something. Does not come to their mindtheir mind: much from the man it is possible to achieve by a praise, but not infinite abuse. Having understood that for any business he is ""shone"" by a hysterics, he will begin to argue with you in an occasion and without it, just for offense and from the principle. And, on the contrary, when the husband knows: darling will sincerely be delighted to a good act, will begin to seek to make you happy. So, will try not to go into conflict once again, and to agree. Therefore before splashing out to it on the head ""sea"" of negative feelings, properly think whether it is worth doing it.
2. As soon as the quarrel is planned, you sit down ""at the negotiating table"". Think that it is better to choose: mutual insults, reproaches which will lead to offenses and silence, or the quiet conversation promoting finding of mutual understanding. Likely, the second way it to be pleasant to you more. If you want to start a strong family, but not to destroy it, it is necessary to stock up with patience and to fill up the lexicon. Peacefully to agree happens sometimes so not easy. But in your forces to achieve this objective.
3. Use small female cunnings. Agree with all arguments which will be given by the husband. Recognize its leadership - this step for certain will amuse his vanity, will weaken, will give confidence that you will not argue. But such moment needs to be seized to begin carefully, without hurrying, small portions to give your reasons in any given occasion. If you well try, then sooner or later, you will hear the thoughts from the husband's lips. After the similar done work you without problems agree with darling about anything. At the same time he will sincerely be sure that the last word remained behind it.