Years go, but you are still lonely. Understanding that the main thing in life is a love is. But there is no feeling still. It is time to put the end to the book of lonely life and to allure love. How to make it?
1. Be ready to love, are open, it can come at any time. It does not mean that it is necessary to do attack towards each pleasant face of an opposite sex, but also it is not necessary to ignore. Be friendly, smile, interested in what occurs around.
2. Pay attention to appearance. If you did not update clothes long ago, now it is a high time to make it. Buy fashionable clothes, footwear and accessories. Take care of a fashionable hairstyle or a hairstyle. Hair have to frame beautifully a face, but not to be as tow.
3. Begin with love for yourself. It does not mean egoism or narcissism at all. Psychologists say that the person can love another only when falls in love with himself. We will take this moment as a basis. This state accepting yourself it what you are actually. Perhaps, it is not easy to fall in love with himself sad or angry, but it is a part of any person also as kindness, care, sincerity. In each of us there is any quality existing in the world, only in different proportions. Having accepted in itself these feelings, it will be simpler to you to understand other person.
4. Bring order to the house, it is monastery of love. Comfortably to you to be in the dwelling? Whether there is a wish to be there, to spend time? Sometimes in order that it became cozy, it is necessary just to move furniture or to change a situation. Get new curtains, buy beautiful bed linen. Remove all symbols of loneliness from the apartment. It is about unpaired objects or images. Lonely people often hang up the pictures casting grief, get the figurines symbolizing asceticism. Instead buy pair figures, plant in a pot two trees at once and find the second pillow for a bed.
5. Communicate with an opposite sex, you look in the face, touch to each other, smile. The love is under construction on mutual sympathy. Eyes – the window to the soul, and somewhere there lives pure joyful feeling which needs to be recovered or just to release outside. Send a look love and when it wants to tell, pronounce important words: "I love you".