It is difficult to argue that a basis of the relations between the man and the woman is the love. And sooner or later each of you should or ask a question of feelings, or to answer it. Asking the beloved about his attitude towards you, you already understand that you are in love, however to answer the question "do you love me?" much more difficult, than to set it.
Instruction
1. Can seem that a question of love simple, and the answer to it can be quite obvious. However it is necessary to remember that at this moment very heavy responsibility is conferred on you. As similar questions seldom are unforeseen, for certain subconsciously the answer concerning the specific person was already given, at least for itself. Therefore at once be defined that the answer is, but only think well of how to express it. If you have strong feelings to the person, in this case you should not be afraid to show emotions and to express them. It is possible to answer safely "yes, I love you".
2. Unfortunately, there is also it that you have no reciprocal feelings to the person. Do you like to hear "me?" and to understand that the answer has to be negative – very serious test. Nevertheless, frankness and honesty – the main thing what it is necessary to remember at this moment. At the same time it is impossible to forget also about feelings of asking. It is impossible to answer too sharply, to treat a question with irony and also to ignore a question. It is important that your answer unambiguously let know to the one who asks, you love it or not. The form of the answer, a word which you will use have to be extremely soft and even calming. Remember that the negative answer can not just upset the person, but also enter into a long depression. Quite often happens that girls, trying to alleviate pain of the guy, answer vaguely or evasively. It cannot be done. In this case it will have a hope. Thus, if you are precisely sure of lack of feelings to this person, false hopes cannot be given. It will only aggravate a situation in the future. Honestly admit that there is no love, or yet not, but you test something warm. You do not stint emotions, explain everything that occurs in your soul. Ask the person to wait some time or tell that you will never be able to reciprocate to it.
3. Of course, happens and so that you also are not able to understand the feelings to the person. In this case it is necessary to let know in the answer that definitely you cannot tell even to yourself. Perhaps, it is worth asking about that the question was postponed for some time. Certainly, the lack of definite affirmative answer will upset the partner, but it is better, than to enter it into delusions. Whatever the answer to a question of love was, it is worth to rememberit is worth to remember that it will be received by the person for whom you are not indifferent. And, most likely, who very much loves you therefore be extremely honest and frank.