It is very pleasant to hear praises and compliments in the address. But often people cannot formulate the worthy answer, are confused and redden. Of course, most often the person is praised by relatives and friends, their kind and sincere words are perceived as due. Young inexperienced people are quite often nonplused by compliments from girls.
Instruction
1. Do not look for "a double bottom" of a praise, apprehend kind words which to you were told by the girl as the truth. Do not convince the interlocutor that you did not deserve compliments. In this case there is a danger to assure the young person of your correctness! Raise the self-assessment not to feel awkward, having heard a praise.
2. The answer to a praise has to be simple and short. Long and detailed stories are not necessary as you regularly go to trainings and what exercises there you carry out to achieve such volume of muscles which was pleasant to the girl. If praised your hairstyle, do not explain to what hairdressing salon went, just tell what too is pleasant to you and it is very good that you have a similar taste.
3. Thank the girl for kind words and her attention to your person. Be glad with all the heart, usually people pay compliments to please the pleasant person. Only do not remain indifferent and indifferent, such reaction you can offend the girl.
4. If it seemed to you that the praise is slightly tense and is not sincere, think why these words were told, for what purpose. Perhaps the girl just is confused itself and could not say the prepared phrase with feeling. It is not necessary to think of bad at once, it is better a reciprocal compliment encourage the young person, start a casual conversation to remove stress.
5. To show to the girl that her words are pleasant to you, smile and look in eyes to the interlocutor. Note also her merits: "Katya, as it is good that though someone notices my efforts to look better! I wanted to tell you long ago that you are a cool kind girl, but hesitated to start talking about it!".
6. You will be always come to the rescue by a good joke in response to a compliment: "I try to adopt your style, only I cannot pick up a dress!". Touch slightly a hand of the girl or warmly embrace, in this case even words will not be necessary.