Contents, as we know, defines a form. Though sometimes contents depends on a form. When that considered indecent the statement of emotions in public. Was considered that the person has to have restraint and hide all the problems far inside. Now it is especially important to be the cheerful person – and it will become more cheerful and simpler to live, and people around you will encourage the positive spirit. But in everything it is necessary to know when to stop if the person constantly pours jokes, constantly jokes and pins up someone, this behavior can quickly tire anyone. It is possible to call such person the clown, and this not really grateful calling.
Instruction
1. Do not hesitate to joke, you joke to a bowl. If you have a good mood – surely share it with friends. Friends will estimate and too will cheer up. And cheerful friends, in turn, will load with fun and you and will lighten your mood if it suddenly falls. But you remember, it is necessary to joke so that friends laughed together with you, but not at you in any way. You can pretend to be, of course, the little fool, create absurd and talk any nonsense, but in that case you should forget about good situation in society. To be cheerful – it does not mean to be ridiculous. Though a little bit it is possible to fool about sometimes.
2. Laugh in a face to difficulties which to us are presented by life. You hold at yourself in the head that if to experience difficulties, sitting on a chair and propping up the sad head hands – it will become better from it not. It is necessary to be able to distract, find interesting occupation into which it is possible to plunge. Then the nerves will be spent by you less, and it will be easier to look at the world with a smile to you.
3. Be not afraid to be the altruist, help people, even to those whom you for the first time see. You noticed, probably, that it is worth helping you to the person with his problem – at heart becomes easier and quieter. Too help friends, they will estimate it. Only be not overzealous, otherwise they will get used to your help. And here the ordinary acquaintance, especially to those with whom you had tense relations it is not necessary to give a hand. Present that one of your not really good friends approaches you and unexpectedly for you asks for small financial support. He says that he respects you that you his friend also asks you that you lent to it money. You can politely let it know that you will not give money to it. Most likely, this person just tries to get at you money, but not to borrow. "Helping" such people once, wait for the visit of them again and repeatedly. I say it, proceeding from personal experience.