Time is rapid, and the message that you will become a grandmother soon, can take unawares. The birth of grandsons – it is wonderful. You should not panic, the wisdom and knowledge of life will help you to become the good grandmother.
Instruction
1. Refresh information on child care in memory. Read modern literature on education of kids, since your motherhood a lot of things changed. Take an interest what technique of education of children is closest to future mother, it to you will help to understand better each other.
2. Help young parents to care for the child. Offer the help and in household chores. The kid takes away a lot of time and the tasty dinner made by the careful grandmother, will be appreciated.
3. Suggest tired mummy to have a rest and find a little time for yourself until you walk with the baby on the street. When the child grows up, read him books and be engaged with him in the developing games. Over time suggest parents to bring the grandson to you for the weekend. Spouses will be able to stay together or to meet friends, and you to communicate to the kid much. The main thing that your help was quiet and unostentatious. You should not rush to extremes and to carry out every day at the child's bed, vigilantly monitoring all actions of young parents.
4. Do not call into question authority of mother even if you not absolutely agree with her methods of education. You inform of all the councils in a correct and benevolent form. On the questions concerning health of the kid at first consult with the doctor. But such specifications are necessary in urgent cases when you in a root do not agree with that as parents treat the child and see real threat for children's health.
5. Think up the joint occupation with the grandson. When the kid stays with you, bake together pies, you go to interesting pass – campaigns, let you will have simple secret. Well and of course all grandmothers are associated at children with heat, love, a cosiness and gifts. You love the grandsons, sincerely be interested in their life, and small hearts will reciprocate to you.