If you from darling decided to legalize the relations, then of you reasonably will be to show respect for parents of the girl and to ask their blessings. Now the tradition of the application of a hand of the bride is not always observed. Young people make the decision on marriage independently. However to ask the daughter's hands for parents is, first of all, a sign of respect and sign of good education.
Instruction
1. Be prepared for a meeting with the bride's parents. Pay attention to the appearance. Put on clean and tidy clothes. By tradition it is possible to put on a suit and a tie, suitable footwear. Find out from darling tastes of her parents to buy small gifts: flowers – future mother-in-law, a wine bottle – to future father-in-law. To a table it is also possible to bring candies. Be defined whether you will give ring to the girl at a meeting with parents. If yes, that buy it in advance, having learned the necessary size of a finger of the bride. Not to be mistaken with a size, it is imperceptible for darling circle a ring, having put it on paper, and then address the jeweler.
2. On a meeting with parents of the bride you arrive on time. If you hesitate and are modest in a conversation, it is possible to take the fellow matchmaker whose task will be to show to you to the best advantage and to tell all the best. Greet the father of the bride strong handshake, and present to mother a beautiful bouquet.
3. Most likely, you will be invited to the laid table. In the course of communication it is necessary to thank the girl's parents for such wonderful daughter. You can list high qualities and advantages and to tell that you love. Tell parents that you intend to legalize the relations with their daughter, and ask their blessings on marriage. You can, having paid a tribute to tradition, to ask the bride's hands in spite of the fact that the decision is already made by you. It will be a sign of respect to parents.
4. If you decided to be a suitor for the hand the bride publicly, then guests and parents of the girl of the house at one of the parties, gather in restaurant or other public place. In this case it is necessary to prepare the speech upon completion of which, to put on the bride's finger a ring as a sign of an engagement. Do not forget about bouquets of flowers for the girl and her mother.
5. You can present a pomolvochny ring to the girl, both at parents, and at other right moment when you do her the offer. The tradition of donation of such gift came to us from the West. By rules the pomolvochny ring is carried only prior to a wedding then replace it with wedding. If marriage strong, the first ring can be descended in the future. Anyway, in our country there are no accurate rules concerning carrying the ring presented at an engagement: sometimes it continues to be carried on other finger and during marriage or put on family celebrations.