If your relations ceased to develop, having stopped at an initial stage, you have an occasion to think. When you love the person, happens very sadly that he does not want to acquaint you with the parents and to see yours, does not seek to begin joint life.
Instruction
1. Define the reason which prevents your relations to move to other level. Try to learn what frightens and pushes away your elect. Perhaps, he is not self-assured and is afraid of responsibility. If he earns insufficiently, it can be too the cause of unwillingness to start a family. Perhaps, it still needs to check the feelings to you and to be convinced that you also are that, for the rest of life. The unavailability to the serious relations can follow from its general attitude towards women - it just was not acquired. Time can change this position, but think whether you have it, whether you want to wait.
2. Talk to the man if you think that he is afraid of responsibility, is afraid not to cope. Tell that he can rely on you. Dream as together you will achieve everything as you will help each other. Try to let it know that you need it and nobody else. If the reason in money - try to paint your future expenses under the articles and demonstrate that your joint income will be enough for comfortable existence.
3. Switch to yourself if understood that darling doubts the feelings to you. Take a detached view of yourself and think that you changed. Present that you the young man, and solve, you would be got to fall in love. Be engaged in the appearance, update a hairstyle or clothes. At the same time think of yourself, but do not do everything for the sake of the partner. Sign up for courses which wanted to visit long ago. Begin to take lessons of dances. Be interested in work and colleagues more. Meet friends. Let you will have a new, interesting life. Perhaps, having seen it, your elect will reconsider the relation to you.
4. Think whether such man is necessary to you. If nothing helped, present what will be if you leave. For certain in your life there will be a lot everything. Make a choice: to wait and hope, perhaps, in vain, or to take the destiny in own hands.