Sometimes it is necessary to stimulate desire of the man to earn more. A practical advice will help.
Instruction
1. For a start it is necessary to discuss need to earn more from practical examples with the spouse. Tell about need for acquisition of those, or other things for the house, about how it is important to eat and buy properly quality and various products, share dreams of joint rest and so on. Every other day seriously ask the spouse when you go to choose new household appliances, thus, you bring him out of a condition of slackness, stimulate the man.
2. Give to the husband of self-confidence. You praise for the most insignificant victories and advances, pay attention to its advantages, let him seek to develop in himself the best qualities. Trust in its forces, you say that such man is worthy bigger, the best position, the best salary.
3. If you noticed a possibility of advance of the husband on work, try to suggest to him an idea delicately. You should not spread bluntly the action plan and to lament how it he does not notice obvious decisions. Smoothly direct the husband, ask about his progress, be interested in his opportunities, accurately prompt and advise.
4. Allow the man to become in the head of the family. Accept his authority, the husband has to make the final decision on all questions. Do not undertake a burden of men's duties. Trust in the husband as soon as you are sure that the man can provide completely the family to all necessary, he will begin to do it. Often women, without noticing that, undertake to solve all family problems then the man voluntarily gives command in her charge and relaxes.
5. If in family there is not enough finance, usually the woman begins to fuss, thinks how it is better to save, looks for also to the husband possible side jobs. In such situation it is necessary to give the chance to the man to try to direct independently finance, to feel the real shortage of money, it will also bring him out of the weakened state and will force to work.
6. Attract attention. The woman who sees around only a negative inclined to depressive mood, sensitive and indecisive, will not be able to inspire the man, to stimulate it for new fulfillments and development. You have to radiate confidence and a positive spirit. Load the spouse with the positive energy.