Acquaintance, meetings, love and, at last, wedding. And is farther what? Long family happy life, how in the fairy tale? Alas, it not always happens. Each woman wants never to hear the word "treason", and especially to face her in life.
Many families to face live in consent and love, the passion gradually is replaced by mutual understanding, friendship and respect. All know that right friendship, including the relations and family is capable to fasten any relations very strongly. Only there are also other cases. When the spouse at her husband learns about presence of other woman in a couple of years after the wedding. What in this case to do to it? What shall I do?
Many women, having learned about the mistress, begin to panic. Begin to look for a way out in panic. Roll up hysterics, make scandals, demand the termination of the relations with the mistress and so forth. But often it does not help as the husband went to the mistress, and continues to go. And can proceed so infinitely long. The husband can apologize, make promises, swear that it not to repeat, but again will fall back into the old ways through some time.
There is other option of events. The spouse learns about the novel by the husband only later few years after its beginning. The man does not intend to leave one of women. It for the wife very heavy blow. Marriage can terminate in a divorce because not any spouse is capable to live with the husband, knowing about treason. But many wives through the pride cross and try to keep visibility of successful family for the sake of children, the love for the man or material welfare. Just in such situations the life of women (both) turns into a nightmare. The man also suffers: he is under pressure from two parties, but to make the choice not in forces. Does not exist in similar situations of model of the correct behavior. Some cannot forgive the spouse of treason and get divorced. Others accept a situation and become with the mistress of the husband girlfriends, just as in east harems. And why is also not present if the spouse is capable to provide both families financially? The third are depressed. The fourth try to return the husband to a family bosom in every way. Many options. But each woman will be able to resolve such issue proceeding from beliefs, the worldly wisdom and the point of view on life. The main thing in a temper not to work then not to regret.