Relationship with the husband's family not always develops in the best way. Sometimes it is very difficult to find a common language with them, and most often misunderstanding arise with the dearest and loved one of the spouse – his mother. Kind of heavy was, it is necessary to be able to improve at least the "tense" relations.
1. Remember that whatever the mother-in-law was, she is the husband's mother therefore it is necessary to have to it respect. Once again do not remind of your relations to the spouse. Especially, do not incite him against it. Exposing itself in the best light, it is possible to achieve the return result. Think that it is heavy to man to become torn among two beloveds, though darlings differently.
2. Communicate with the mother-in-law even if it is unpleasant to you to do it. Nobody forces to tell the most intimate, but on abstract subjects it is possible to talk and it is even necessary not to worsen the relation. Talk about children, about mutual friends, just about weather.
3. Get up on its party and think, kind of you behaved on its place. Perhaps, you go too far? Do not behave as you would not want you to behave with you. Remember that you too future mother-in-law. What you want to have relations with the daughter-in-law?
4. Think, maybe, you are too critical to the mother-in-law? You do not judge her strictly. Perhaps, she very much loves the son and cannot reconcile in any way to the fact that you took place number one near it. She got used to look after him, got used to be the authority. For any woman the wedding of the son is a shock. Someone accepts and understands these changes quickly, someone cannot reconcile to it for many years. In this regard it is necessary to stock up with patience and to try to change current situation.
5. Do not give in on provocation from the mother-in-law if they take place. Be wiser. Do not clash once again not to aggravate a situation. Talk to it alone. Try to convince it that you want to communicate normally and have no anything against it. If she does not make contact, do not accuse and do not swear at her. Show respect, and can not at once, but she will surely estimate your relation.