It is correct to bring up the child, each parent dreams to have open, warm relationship with the child. How to become good parents?
Instruction
1. Embraces and manifestation of caress from parents, is an important factor for normal development of the child. The child needs to feel as often as possible love and care from parents. When parents embrace the child, the kid feels safe. The children who are not deprived of parental caress grow up self-assured, cheerful people.
2. Try to smile more often to the children. They feel and adopt bad mood of parents, nervousness and grief. Therefore to pretend that everything well will not turn out. Abstract from problems, completely switch the attention to the most favourite that exists at you, the child. You should not vent also the bad mood on the child even if later you ask forgiveness and you will calm the child, the unpleasant deposit will remain at it in soul.
3. Be always consecutive in the actions and promises. If you punish the child, then choose a real method with established periods. It is impossible to speak to the child that never allow to watch TV, or forever deprive of it sweets. Such impracticable threats do not work, later a short period you will forget about the promise and suggest the child to look at a cartoon, or treat with sweet. And next time nobody will believe your threats, the importance of punishment will lose the meaning.
4. Always keep the promises. That the child respected parents, trusted them it is always necessary to follow the promise. Do not give to the kid vain hopes, you do not speak about what you are not sure of. If promised to go with the child for a walk, and make. You should not change plans voluntarily, to a discretion, children will cease to trust you.
5. Set children a good example in everything. Parents, it is the main example for imitation. Children seek to resemble in everything parents, often without understanding that some habits of parents and their behavior wrong. Get rid of addictions, do not use obscene expressions. Parents have to communicate always quietly among themselves at children, any hysterics and scandals. Children have to perceive you as assured in themselves, quiet, well-mannered people, they will surely seek to become the same. All actions of parents, even the most harmful, children perceive as standard of behavior.