Did you decide to connect the life by bonds of marriage? The proposal, preparation for a wedding, a celebration, a honeymoon, and after they are everyday life and long happy life hand in hand. Of course, in family there are both problems, and the conflicts, and misunderstanding. The main thing is to choose the correct tactics of behavior in marriage.
Instruction
1. First of all you have to remember and understand that marriage is an art of a compromise. Learn to find golden mean, to make concessions. For example, ahead holiday. You reflect over where to celebrate it - at his mother or at yours. Concede to it, but take a promise that next time you will spend this time with your mother. Or you can suggest option to go round this day two families – both it, and yours.
2. Agree with the soulmate that at conflict situations you will not wash "dirty linen in public". Yes, there are such people who constantly share problems with close people. It is wrong, what does not suit you darling has to know, but not the close girlfriend or that is worse – mother.
3. Be prepared for the fact that after the wedding your relations will be left by a part of romanticism. That it did not disappear at all, feed the relations. You do not become the housemaid and the servant, arrange to the husband surprises. For example, you can organize a romantic dinner outdoors. Yes, exactly there. You can eat houses at any time, and here outdoors – no!
4. Also you have to say about what does not suit you. Do not save everything in yourself at all, remember that it can collect and develop into the juicy scandal!
5. Agree with the husband concerning life, that is divide duties. Men are very strongly irritated by such situations when they are violently lifted from a sofa with words: "Take out garbage" or "Go to shop". Prepare the list of affairs in advance, and it let will choose suitable occupation for itself(himself) and itself will distribute free time.
6. Talk to the spouse not only about affairs family, but also about work. Ask how there passed the working day that it made today. Consult on it, it has to feel own importance. You have to become for it not only the wife, but also the friend.