How to behave with the wife at pregnancy

How to behave with the wife at pregnancy

Pregnancy – special, very important stage in life of the woman who is going to become mother. She at the same time is also happy, understanding that in it new life arose, and worries: whether development of a fruit normally proceeds whether there are no complications. Sometimes the woman feels strong fear of childbirth: and it will be suddenly intolerably sore? To it toxicosis, feeling sick, frequent differences of mood, whims, tears are still added. In a word, at the husband of the pregnant woman there comes hard life.

Instruction

1. First of all you need to understand: everything that happens to the wife, is a consequence of sharp hormonal changes in her organism. From here both tears out of the blue, and inexplicable, apparently, whims, reproaches, experiences. No doubt, it is unpleasant, sometimes strongly irritates. But the wife is not guilty, she became such because bears the child. Therefore it is necessary to have patience, to reproach the woman for her behavior, especially, to shout at her, demanding to get it together.

2. You need to be especially sensitive, attentive, indulgent now. Certainly, it is not necessary to indulge thoughtlessly the wife literally in everything, but to much it is possible and it is necessary to belong by the principle: "than the child played if only did not cry". After the delivery all its whims and differences of mood pretty fast will stop.

3. It is necessary to calm the wife, to inspire in her confidence that everything will pass normally that your kid will be born in the put time, strong and healthy. It is not necessary even to laugh for fun at her worsened appearance, type at all: "There was a chickabiddy earlier, now there was a donut"! or: "Ah, you are my pyshechka!" It is difficult even to present more gross blunder. Pregnant women have already cruelly complex concerning the blurred figure and such words can drive them in a deep depression. On the contrary, the wife needs in every possible way to let know that she for you still the most beautiful, favourite and desired.

4. Certainly, it is necessary to preserve the pregnant woman against excessive physical activities, stresses, unnecessary risks. You should undertake at least a part of house efforts, not to assume that the wife lifted or transferred weights. It is also desirable for you to see whenever possible the wife to work and to meet. And, certainly, it is necessary to use the best efforts that in the house there was a comfortable, kind psychological situation. It is not necessary to speak about sad, to discuss some tragic events. Contacts with the people irritating the wife should be reduced to a minimum.

5. Special attention should be paid to that the pregnant woman received sufficient, good and various nutrition, vitamin-rich and minerals. She now true should eat for two.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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