Men and women various literally in everything. For this reason courtesies which the young man renders to the girl can be pleasant for her, but are unclear. Though they are obvious to any guy, as clear as a day! And here such girl suffers doubts: Whether "I am pleasant to it?" And the guy, being afraid to seem importunate and tactless, does not hurry her and patiently waits when he is estimated when she understands what feelings I show courtesies. Not to miss the good guy, girls should remember some simple things.
Instruction
1. Friendship between different floors, of course, is possible, but sooner or later, it or moves to higher level, or quietly dies away. Because laws of the nature are not subject to cancellation. If you need to consider as the friend of the boy which long time persistently looks for your society which is always glad to support, help business, or council, – that, consider. But kind of then it was not necessary to regret: "Missed! Where did I only look? Where there were my eyes?" From this it is possible to draw a conclusion: look narrowly at the friend more attentively.
2. Firmly remember: just a friend in 99% of cases is in love with naive "just the girlfriend"! And cannot understand in any way why it is not reached by such simple truth. Do not wait that the guy will clearly and unambiguously tell: "I love you!" Of course, there are also such young people, and they not so are not enough. But is enough also timid, vulnerable, with thin, sensitive nature. They simply are afraid to be refused as for them it will be too heavy.
3. Besides, it is quite possible that such guy already tried "to inform" you of the feelings, and you did not even notice it, or misunderstood him. Men and women have absolutely different psychology! They look at the same differently. And now the guy hesitates to start talking openly.
4. If the young man tries to accompany you everywhere, often calls you, is nervous when you communicate with other young people, with confidence it is possible to tell that he is not indifferent to you.
5. You remember the wise rule: "Once – accident, two – regularity, three – a system". If the guy continually tries to catch sight to you, at the same time pretending (as a rule, very ineptly, clumsily) that this meeting came out absolutely accidentally. Well, here it is necessary to be extremely dull girl not to draw the unique conclusion: you are pleasant to it!
6. And, at last, absolutely faultless indicator – if the guy resignedly suffers your differences of mood, jokes, "subsplittings", sometimes very sharp. Remember: it it allows only the girl who is really dear to it!
7. And if you doubt the suspicions, it is possible to ask your mutual friend or the acquaintance to ask him on the attitude towards you. Perhaps, he will also open, but consider that the person has to it be close.