Quite often we are trapped, having relied on unreliable people. Twice bitterly, when the loved one whom we considered for the brother when he steps out brings or substitutes at the most turning point. And all because we did not see signals or did not want to see that was directly before eyes, actually it is simple to choose the friend, rather critical approach and a sober view on a thing to understand on whom it is possible to rely and on whom it is impossible.
Instruction
1. First of all, estimate the person on his behavior. Keep track of his outlook, degree of his intelligence and education. Estimate its prospects as the person seeking for development and not from the mercantile party, development at all – obligatory sign of spiritual cleanliness of the person.
2. Remove in the logical way its ideals or learn about it directly. Learn what he aspires to what he wants from life. In many respects these questions are similar to those that are set at employment, it indeed, they check the person regarding what it is and what can be expected from it.
3. Keep track of his behavior in critical situations, find out how it behaved in any given situation, but isolate only information, filter the personified attitude of people towards this person. Remember that the relation at all a miscellaneous, but acts are not the attitude towards them, and the action made under certain circumstances and under the influence of certain factors, only action matters, all the rest – lyrics.