Throughout life the people should build, support and restore the relation with surrounding people anywhere and everywhere. At some it turns out to do it easily and easy, others spend incredible efforts, and as a result have only visibility of good relations. A benevolent spirit to people, desire to live with the world around in the world and observance of rules of human community will help to maintain good relations with relatives, friends and colleagues.
Instruction
1. Be friendly with people. Simple habits of a wish of health, kind morning and good night, subconsciously adjust you and people around on a peace harmony.
2. Try not to splash out the internal negative outside. First, it is possible to get used to do it, without having understood its reasons. Secondly, people are not always ready to become "vest". Thirdly, it is very frequent the easiest way to get rid of own negative the charge of something of other people is that in turn does not extinguish, and expands a conflict zone.
3. Begin to look for tension reason in the relations in own words and behavior. You do not seek to change others, you seek to change yourself. It concerns both big, and small. Not only principal differences, but also the bothered habits, or the same reaction to some events can be the cause of change of the relations.
4. You do not become the slave to own beliefs – perhaps, some of them prevent you to be in a harmony with the world around. Think whether there is a sense to defend the basic moments when it is about love, attachment and preservation of close, trusting relationship. Your beliefs should not destroy your feelings and feelings of your relatives.
5. Be sensitive to people. Respect their right to be in bad mood, a difficult situation, serious condition, etc. You learn to show sympathy and respect.
6. Do not impose others either the experience, or the beliefs. To give advice when need it, does not mean categorical upholding of own correctness at all. People have the right for own interests and own opinion.
7. Do not talk scandal. It concerns any negative statements to the third parties. Especially, do not retell others negative opinion and do not participate in similar discussions. Make own opinion on such questions. It will save you from surprises.
8. You learn to perceive structurally criticism in the address. Let critical statements for you will be an occasion to think, but not to take offense.
9. You spend more time with those who are dear to you. Joint leisure connects people not less, than joint affairs, especially, if it not empty pastime.