When the relations reach a deadlock and people decide to leave, it is not obligatory for them to become enemies. Even then, when the gap turned back scandal, it is possible to try to improve the relations with the former lover.
1. If to study results of statistics, it becomes clear that a large number of couples even after parting with each other remain in the friendly relations and not always refuse sexual adventures with each other. Desire of proximity after break in relations is not obligatory, you can just become friends as all the same you are each other close people. To improve good relations with the former lover, arrange a meeting with it in some not too populous cafe or in the park. Choose the neutral territory for a conversation and try to sort things out.
2. Have a talk and come to the general conclusion. You have to understand what led to parting that you do not want to be together any more, but also you do not need to become enemies at all. Tell former that you value communication with it, you want to spend further time together, but only not as lovers, and as friends.
3. During the conversation you have to find out that it was not pleasant to you in each other acts that you waited from each other in any given situations. It must be done in order that last mistakes and misunderstanding did not develop into quarrels and the conflicts again.
4. If you managed to agree about restoration of the friendly relations, start spending time together over again. You go for a walk, in cafe, communicate with your mutual friends, remember only good of your past. Thus you will be able to save yourself and the former lover from last offenses, from sense of guilt before each other.
5. Remember that friends are friends. You will not always be able to tell them about some personal intimate problems and experiences, and the lover who here was with whom you once shared a bed, for certain will be able to listen to you and to help.
6. One more positive side of establishing good relations with being - a possibility of restoration of more close relations. If you become friends, most likely, both it, and at you will have new relations. Communicating with each other, you will subconsciously compare the present and last relations and, perhaps, will come to a conclusion that it was better for you earlier, than now.
7. The main thing that you have to make to reconcile with the former lover is to communicate with it sincerely and honestly. Stop to hide from each other the emotions and feelings. If you understand that you can trust the loved one, your relations will return to normal.