Some girls essentially do not meet the first young people. However there is a large number of thin female tools by means of which the initiative of acquaintance will formally proceed from the young man. For this purpose it is only necessary to know how it is correct to draw attention of the man.
Instruction
1. Try to hold visual contact. It can instill in the young man confidence that if he approaches you, you will not refuse to him. It is known that men are afraid of refusals. However here it is important not to overdo and not to spoil everything. It is worth holding visual contact no more than 5 seconds. Then it is possible to take modestly a look aside.
2. Also the pose occupied by you matters, it is a strong nonverbal signal. Your pose have to be opened and weakened and also moderately seductive.
3. The smile is one of powerful instruments of flirtation. With its help you will be able to show to the pleasant guy that you are a friendly person and are open to communication with it.
4. Try to remain for some time alone. The thing is that to the man, from the psychological point of view, happens much more difficult to approach to get acquainted the girl who is in a circle of the friends. If you want that the guy who to you was pleasant, got acquainted with you then it is possible to rise, for example, and approach bar. In this situation you will be left without the company of the friends.
5. Try to pretend to be as though you need the help to make the order. And it is quite simple to make it. It is known that at a bar counter always many people also need to apply many efforts to draw attention of the bartender. Try to apply couple of in advance fateful naprovat attempts, and then begin to sigh kartinno. Only do not do it too affectedly. The man as the true gentleman, will have to offer you the help.
6. You can begin a conversation and push it to acquaintance. For example, approach a bar counter and take an interest at it whether there is any given cocktail here, or ask any other unostentatious question. It will be necessary only to wait further when he takes up an initiative and will take business in hand.
7. Try to touch it, accidentally. Near a bar counter, as a rule, the whole crowd to the people. Passing by, it is possible to push kind of accidentally slightly it with a hand, to touch with hair or, having put a hand to it on shoulders, to ask to allow you to pass.