The harmony between the man and the woman has to become a basis of family bonds. Feelings of partners are designed to develop in marriage, but not to break and die away, bringing dissatisfaction and misfortune. To meet the partner in life, it is necessary to understand himself for a start.
1. Think of yourself, of the outlook and character. May youMay youMay you tell with confidence that you have own "core" and outlook on life? Marriage is the union of two people, a mutual interlacing of destinies and lives and heavy responsibility. A lot of things depend on the relations in marriage: health, wellbeing, success, etc.
2. Exclude own contradictions. The person who "got stuck" in the egoistical desires and false ideas of marriage is hardly capable to define precisely what person is necessary to him for creation of full-fledged family that essentially excludes a fatal meeting. It is very often possible to hear opinion that the ideal does not exist. However both men, and women look for it. For example, girls often want to see lack of jealousy in the husband. But at the same time forget that the strong man will never allow another to try to obtain attention of the companion on which he applies.
3. Work over the shortcomings. Sometimes high self-esteem prevents "to unmask" and to communicate heart-to-heart to the person who is interesting to you. Perhaps, he has no at all all those qualities which as you consider, have to be present at your future satellite. But and you can be far from perfect. So, having accepted the shortcomings and working on itself, you will meet the close soul capable to understand and estimate you.
4. Mark out qualities of the person who will go together with you on life. Commensurate them with properties of the character. They should not be identical at all, but they are designed to supplement each other.
5. Dream up and understand for yourself what relations you would like to see in marriage, considering that the behavior of spouses generates such union in which both personalities feel freely and comfortably. Do not forget that similar attracts similar. Having in details analyzed the preferences and desires, you will surely meet the person with similar views.