Perhaps, the main eternal issue of the person is the question of how to meet true love. And when the relations already began, it is important to be defined – whether yours is a soulmate or the next short-term communication which will lead to a heart wound sooner or later.
Instruction
1. Analyze your union on such points: Whether well you know the person? To answer in details, pass the questionnaires offered on the Internet. If you know enough about the partner to understand that it is love and that it is your person, then questions of his tastes, distinctive features, the purposes, interests and favourite dishes will not force you to think long.
2. When you are defined that it is not just passing passion, and admiration of internal keeping of the personality and sincere interest in the person, begin to spend with it most much time. Check how your partner behaves in the most various life situations and be convinced that you have not a love. Simple love easily passes after the first situations in which it is found out that your favourite ordinary person, there is nothing supernatural and ideal in him. He can quite be ill, having at the same time not the most charming appearance and to become angry.
3. Find a common ground. Select points on which you coincide – habits, the purposes, views. In further life you will need to lean on something the general that will rally you during difficult moments. If you find out that outlooks and the directions of views absolutely opposite, then it is possible to experiment, of course, but it is better not to spend time for nothing.
4. Verify the main lines of darling with your ideal. At girls in 12-13 years that image of the man with whom she will fall in love with all the heart and will follow for it though on the world's end is created in consciousness. Guys more likely to 19 have to years such ideal. Be vigilant! It is necessary to distinguish enthusiasm for someone and effect of the hormones in a youthful organism demanding romanticism from feeling that this person also is your destiny.
5. The sexual aspect of relationship is 50% of harmony in development couples. But psychologists consider that the true love is a communication of souls. Weigh both parameters – if in some of them you have problems already now, further they will only be aggravated. And the main thing after all, to be able to agree. If you perfectly adjusted dialogue - it is a way to the successful union.
6. Your soulmate, certainly, exists somewhere, so we are suited, the man and the woman – harmonious whole. Also be not afraid of loneliness if you were defined that the person - not your happiness, act and look for further, and heart in alliance intelligently will help to make a right choice.