Externally men seem stronger, than women. They got used to hide and constrain the emotions, try not to show when they are strongly upset or upset. Endurance – valuable quality of the man, but it is worth to rememberit is worth to remember about by what price it is given external coolness. The loving woman to whom the peace of mind of the man is expensive will never forget to encourage darling, kind of courageously he did not meet difficulty.
Instruction
1. It is not without reason said that all of us it is from the childhood. Then the foundation of education is laid and boys also feelings learn to hold back tears, to behave courageously. But also any kid can find support in the encouraging touch of mother in this age. As psychologists found out, the need to feel touch of the woman is felt at a difficult moment by most of men. Do not neglect this magic means if you see that your man is upset, but is not ready to discuss with you the problem yet, just touch it more often.
2. Do not disregard his bad mood, a suppressed and gloomy look. Do not climb with importunate questions, but let know that you are disturbed by its state and to you its problems are not indifferent. Express readiness to listen to it when he is ready to share with you. Behave quietly, without panic, all the behavior show that you believe in it and know well that he will cope with difficulties.
3. When he is able to tell you about the problems, listen to them attentively. Even if so it seemed to you, it is not necessary to say that it is trifles, to begin to play a trick about it. If he strongly worries, so for him it is not a trifle, and everything is very serious. And treat a problem. Listen and ask it to give you time to consider a situation, show that you divide its concern.
4. Through time offer it the way of solving the problem, but do not insist on it, let he will make a choice. Your participation and not indifference – here the most expensive support for it. Tell it that how there were circumstances, you always love it and make any its decision. He has to be sure that it has a reliable back and the loving girlfriend ready to support him anyway. Such confidence will give it additional forces and he, for certain, will come out the winner, with gratitude having noted also your participation in the triumph.