It is senseless to build the relations on a lie. However sometimes reception of concealment of the truth acts as protective reaction, but often subsequently grows to the menacing sizes. And than longer the guy deceives, especially he uses sophisticated methods for cover of the lies.
Instruction
1. Not to each person the courage is allowed to recognize the wrongfulness. From here also requirement a little to adorn the natural course of events, to protect itself, to justify oneself and think out nonexistent details which allegedly extenuate fault is born. And that the beautiful fairy tale did not collapse, born its continuation. And sometimes people literally uvyazat in own lie and are not capable to distinguish the truth from fiction any more. Certainly, such critical situation cannot assume at all therefore it is important to expose the deceiver.
2. If you decided to find out the truth on the problem interesting you, ask straight in the most improper for this purpose situations. The question is too simple, and the guy thought – most likely, he did not manage to think up the next lie yet or just became puzzled. Continue dialogue – do not allow to create the new fairy tale, it is so much simpler to understand, the person says the truth or something hides.
3. Avoid standard questions because on all standard questions there are not less standard answers. Specifications like "What for?" and "Why?" will also allow to achieve the truth.
4. If several times to ask the same questions, but in different situations, the person can begin to get off in those places in which he tells a lie. However if you are mistaken concerning lies, then risk to gain opposite effect.
5. To understand that the person embellishes reality, it is possible by means of simple observation. When someone lies, the reflex forcing to cover a mouth with a palm subconsciously works. Ask at this moment the guy what he hides. If really invents, such statement of question will nonplus it, and the person can blab out inadvertently.
6. Men unlike women are inclined to trust the facts, but not an intuition therefore will in most cases be heated only under the influence of incontestable proofs. Therefore if you are not sure that the guy lies to you and he persistently disproves it, then it is worth waiting the moment and to collect arguments in favor of the correctness – under their impact he will need only to give up.