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Parting of couple is always painful at least for one of the former beloved. Then before the thrown half there is a serious question – how forever to forget the person whom still you love.
How it is possible to forget quickly and forever darling?
Pain, melancholy and offense – these feelings in soul of the thrown person completely eclipse all other emotions. He is not able to work, communicate, be engaged in daily affairs and children productively. And it is almost impossible to help suffering on these most unlucky first days – he is irresponsive neither to foreign councils, nor to a voice of own mind. These days usually the most reckless and silly acts dictated by the broken heart are also made.
Will help to forget darling the ways recommended by the psychologist. The first that it is necessary to make – to accept loss of darling as the taken place, incontestable fact. Unfortunately, the person can often seek consolation in dreams and imaginations. Rather there will be a disposal of unrealistic illusions, the quicker there will come healing.
After parting the thrown person ceases to be realistic about the relations and often begins to idealize the former partner, having forgotten last offenses and problems. To forget darling forever, it is necessary to remember how you quarreled, suffered from misunderstanding. Negative memoirs (and they exist always) have to promote faster depreciation of last relations.
That parting became constructive experience, it is necessary to analyze also the behavior, to understand that it pushed away from you darling. Time spent alone needs to be filled with pleasant impressions, useful affairs - training, improvement of appearance, etc.
Sooner or later, but the moment when the melancholy and devastation leave will come, interest in life and the new relations will appear again. The main thing is to release what left and not to miss all that will succeed.