Often happens so that the relations come to an end, but in our thoughts we cannot finally ""break up"" with the person. How to get rid of the past and to begin new life carelessly?
Instruction
1. Perhaps, in your former relations you ""were dissolved"", having forgotten about the requirements and interests. Now time to remember the former hobbies, a hobby came. Think what brings joy to you. Long ago did not take dancing classes? It is a high time to recommence lessons. Threw because of the relations of a meeting with girlfriends? Call them and make an appointment. New positive emotions will help to force out the past from memory and to forget the ex-boyfriend quicker. Parting is the best time to begin something new. For example, make that it would never allow you, but what you very much wanted.
2. Most important after parting it is as little as possible to remain alone with the negative feelings. If you feel loneliness, despair, surely at once address the person close to you. It is desirable to distract, having talked to it on other subjects. To forget the ex-boyfriend, try that the first months after parting were most filled with meetings with people pleasant to you. Evenings and days off have to be always taken that there were no thoughts of your former.
3. If now you have nobody to love - it is a high time to fall in love with himself. Many problems in the relations arise because of a lack of love for themselves, discontent with. Indulge yourself more often, buy things which increase your appeal in own eyes. Not for nothing there is an opinion that shopping - remarkable means of fight against a stress. For certain delighted looks of men will force you to forget about the former relations. But the most important notice the progress, good lines, listen to the inner voice. All this will help you to forget the ex-boyfriend and to find true love, love for itself.
4. Remember that to forget the ex-boyfriend, enough time will be required. Be tolerant to themselves and to the feelings, you do not hurry them. Bol and offense cannot be suppressed therefore you will need to have a good cry, be uttered to the relatives. There is a wish to cry - afford it. Not for nothing say: ""what does not kill, does us stronger"". But do not expect that you will be able to like someone another at once with whom you will forever forget the ex-boyfriend. At first you need to be alone a little. Only after to you it will be comfortable alone, you will be able to live not last, but present and future.
5. As they say, the most dark night - before dawn. Therefore you remember, behind a black strip in your life white by all means will come. And there, who knows behind what turn you are already waited by her - the happiest and true love.