Treason is capable to cause to people the severe mental anguish, however even such act not always destroys the relations and can be forgiven by the loving soulmate.
Instruction
1. If someone reported to you about what your darling changed you, you should not be depressed and break off the relations at once. For a start be convinced that the incorrectness from your beloved after all took place to be. It is impossible to trust unconditionally rumors, it is better to lean only on the confirmed facts. Talk to the soulmate, find out her opinion on this occasion. If treason after all was confirmed, find out the reasons which were an incitement to similar action. In the majority a case treachery is made not the sprost. Most likely, in your relations there were some reticences, offenses or indifference which could provoke incorrectness.
2. Give vent to your negative emotions. Cry or be uttered. Only it is better not to share similar secrets with people of whose fidelity you are not sure, otherwise your secret can become known to strangers, and it will not lead to anything good. You should not release all offense and anger at the darling. On emotions you can tell to it a lot of superfluous what you will regret then for.
3. When the intensity of emotions and your offense a little ceases, try to understand yourself and to understand whether you will be able to trust again the person who betrayed you. If you are convinced that life without it will not become better, you will have to decide not only on reconciliation, but also on sincere forgiveness.
4. Try to understand that in what between you occurred, not only the traitor, but also you is guilty including. It is the simplest to stop communication with the person who betrayed you, but you have to find forces to perform correction of mistakes. If you found not enough time for the beloved or the beloved, correct it. You spend joint romantic evenings, you go for a walk. Become attentive and gentle on the relation to each other again.
5. People can make mistakes. Give your soulmate a chance of their correction. Perhaps, over time it will manage to return former heat to the relations and to gain your trust. Only remember one thing: if you after all agreed that you will begin all over again, never remind the person dear to you that once he betrayed you. If at each opportunity you begin to remember its treason, sooner or later similar quarrels and scandals can lead to final parting and a gap even of the ordinary friendly relations.