Many dream of love. It comes not to all, but if came – the person in every way seeks not to lose it. At the same time it is not less important not to stop loving most and not to be disappointed in darling.
Instruction
1. From the very beginning try to be respectful to hobbies and the interests of your darling. Understand that if he is keen on it – means, something in it is even if its occupations are not pleasant to you. At the same time do not give up the hobbies. If your darling against your occupations a guitar or aerobics, explain to him that you need it and will not affect your relations in any way. Pay special attention to the general occupations and the general hobbies.
2. After some time of joint life before you some habits of your beloved about which you did not even suspect can open. They can even not be pleasant to you. It is necessary to reconcile and even, maybe, to replace the relation. The unkempt beard can be both disgusting untidiness, and charming negligence, how you treat the person. Your some lines can not be pleasant to darling, too do not forget about it. And there are two options: or to be re-educated, or to talk frankly to darling – I agree to accept your such habit, and you accept mine.
3. If you began to notice that darling began to treat you somehow differently and your feelings cooled down a little, try to understand that occurs. The love can be shown differently and if your darling ceased to come with flowers or does not run to you on kitchen on the first shriek, it does not mean yet that he stopped loving you. Just manifestation of feelings became another.
4. Equip the life so that it brought you and your darling pleasure. At the same time it is unimportant whether you will have a sterile purity or an artistic mess. The main thing that the situation suited both. Try to do household chores together and feel as far as it is pleasant. If you have to vacuum a carpet or to cook soup more often than to your spouse, do not reproach him. Remember that all of you do for the sake of your darling, and he likewise carries out some affairs for the sake of you. Distribute obyazannosot more or less equally. Very often the most usual fatigue becomes the reason of fading of love and even a poyavlyaeniye of hatred.
5. Have sometimes a rest from each other. It is useful even for those who consider the minute spent far from darling, lost. Remember that each of you, besides the general, has also affairs. Go to theater with the girlfriend if the husband gathered for fishing.
6. Periodically organize house celebrations for two. Make a tasty dinner from what is loved by your beloved, and spend evening as if you just met. If there is an opportunity, be in good cafe. Even to the most ideal hostess happens it is necessary to relax and not to think of that whose turn to wash the dishes.
7. Please each other with small gifts, courtesies, tender words. Never wave away if darling decided to tell something to you. Listen and if it is required, express the opinion. But do it quietly and tactfully.