Estimate your relations with parents. They are confidential? Parents understand that you grew up long ago and have the right to independently make the decision? Listen to your opinion? Consider that you were very lucky. Parents managed to grow up you and to release. It is much worse if at you own children already grow, and parents still try to direct you and you for them the same small child, as before.
Instruction
1. Think, maybe, you gave a reason to consider you insolvent. How often do you ask parents for the help in the solution of everyday questions? It could convince the senior generation that you are still insufficiently independent and need their guardianship. Here they also rush to the aid, without paying attention to your age, marital status.
2. Understand parents, they worry about you. Above all they want that you were happy. Trying to help you, they forget that you grew up for a long time. Therefore excessively busily try to participate in your life. You do not hold on them offense, they just are not able in a different way, they should be helped a little.
3. Take for the rule, to independently decide that it is really necessary for you. Be able to defend the decisions made by you adequately. If you already made a choice, follow it, but do not jump aside from the first parental hail or reproach aside.
4. Be tolerant, do not break on shout, do not make scandals with the statement: "I am already adult, all is possible for me that I want, I do". Quietly listen to opinion of the family and by an equal voice tell: "Many thanks for council, I will consider your offer and I will solve how to arrive". Sooner or later parents will be forced to understand that you already grew up and make the decision.
5. Do not forget to communicate regularly with parents, they should not feel left. Tell them about the affairs, but at the same time surely you watch that parents did not try to impose on you the opinion.
6. You remember, you are responsible for parents the same as earlier they were responsible for you. When you were little, you needed attention and love of mother and father. They now too are in great need in it. Seeing your care, adequate behavior, parents will get used over time that you are independent. Your relations will be improved and will turn into new quality.