Over time the relations grow cold. The person who was for you everything on the earth until recently the whole world and is even more - now is not so interesting. Views begin aside... What to make to take out the relations from time ""fridge""?
Instruction
1. For a start remember the past and try to catch that highlight which attracted you in days of old. Everything once began, once you saw this person in a heroic image, on a white game... or just under a window of your apartment with mimosas in hands. Take a closer look more attentively at a habitual face: can be, these lips the infectious smile often bends, and you do not notice; can be, at it the person extremely kind eyes which are easily becoming cunning, cheerful or pensive and sad, and you got used to see only wrinkles around them and inaccurate eyebrows. It is possible to find the charming line in each person - or to remember what you already once found.
2. Add a little romanticism to your life. You for certain go together, on a habit, somewhere on the South, to burn down under the sun on the beach, or to the dacha, to break a waist over potato. Go to a travel there where you were not yet. Wander on the ancient small towns of Europe, go to a tour across the Norwegian fjords, fly to Rome or get lost in a labyrinth of streets of Istanbul. The general pleasant, bright impressions often bring together people. They have general subjects for a conversation again, and joy changes the person, doing it finer and attractive.
3. You can act and on the other hand. Instead of pouring the honey rivers, add to pepper in your relations. If you the woman, make of yourself the star and flutter out from the house, accompanied not with the husband but only a cloud of spirits; if you the man, put on as much as possible stylish, insert a rose into a buttonhole and, whistling, close outside of an apartment door. After that you can go with a light heart to shop or to the friend to watch football, but you for certain will cause jealousy in the soulmate. At all this be extremely careful: you want to return yourself darling, but not to move away from him even more, he can not understand you.
4. You can not pepper and not salt. If you have a quiet character and adventures - not your destiny, just distract from everyday affairs and devote evening, two, three, I kiss week only each other. Send children to the grandmother, forget about house efforts, become populated in hotel and you go on restaurants, cafe, theaters, cinema, the museums. You speak at the nights without a break, put on as it is possible better, dance. Live so as if all your existence is given only to that person that near you. Not for nothing say that most of all attention needs to be paid to the spouse or the spouse, there is even more attention, than to children.
5. If nothing works, it is worth thinking: can, put in you? If you the man, look at yourself in a mirror. Do you have a paunch, favourite drink - beer, hobby - viewing football matches, and the look is seldom more joyful than full despondency? In this case it is unlikely your spouse will be able (even at all desire) to blaze to you with former interest. If you the woman, begin with a mirror too and be late in front of it longer, than the man. Did you cease to watch appearance, threw fitness, go for days on end in hair curlers and never smile? Is why to grieve to your spouse. So if everyone begins with itself(himself), more radical measures eventually and will not be required.