Any woman seeking to arrange the private life wants to learn more about that man who was pleasant to it. It is quite clear and natural! Whether reliable he is a person, whether serious what his tastes, hobbies, character, merits and demerits. But how to learn it? It is somehow awkward to ask directly and where a guarantee that he will answer absolutely sincerely, frankly? Many people can exaggerate the advantages and to diminish shortcomings, it is natural and clear too. Therefore the woman should act with sideways.
Instruction
1. First of all, remember a wise saying: "The nature not for nothing gave to the person two ears and only one mouth!" In other words, overcome primordially female habit to garrulity. Let the man talk, and you mostly listen, absorb information and analyze it, draw conclusions.
2. How to make so that he got to talking? It is in most cases absolutely easy. Even the silent, timid person can change in a magic way if suddenly finds out that near it the attentive, genuinely interested listener. From where only the eloquence will undertake! Things are easy: to become for it such listener.
3. Attentively you look at it, from time to time nod, ask the specifying questions (try that they were "on business", but not inattentively). Very clearly you say: "As it is good that I met such clever, uncommon person!" Believe, not only "weaker sex" is susceptible to flattery also courtesies.
4. Well, and how to learn about the most important: how seriously he treats family life to what views of a role of the man and the woman in family adheres whether he is ready to become a father and to be responsible for children? The best way: accidentally, accidentally, to put a conversation on the right track! Remember the well-known book by Agatha Christie "Ten Little Niggers". The artful judge Uorgreyv, looking for the victims for the crime conceived by him, literally everywhere started a conversation on the same subject: whether the person who committed murder can avoid punishment? And he with success obtained the necessary information from various people.
5. As the purpose at you is far more harmless and more noble, than at the artful lawyer, can adopt his method without the slightest remorse. You say a magic phrase: "And here one my acquaintance …" also tell the real or invented pitiful story. For example, about the naive woman who fell a victim of the resort gigolo who swore that loves it, promised to marry and as a result disappeared, having extorted from it all money. Reaction of the man will tell you about much. At the slightest hint on derisive cynicism of type: "The good fellow, well heated the woman!", or even at statement of the fact: "Itself it is guilty, it is not necessary to be the silly woman!", think: whether such person is necessary to you?