The causticity is the caustic sneers on the verge of sarcasm aiming accidentally, unintentionally to touch someone's "sore point" to deride, embarrass. The person, in perfection able to needle has reputation of the opponent, sharp on language, who is better not to touch and for not angering: "pripechatat" in reply so that will seem to nobody a little! And, it seems, remaining within decencies, not falling to frank roughnesses, insults. How to learn to needle?
Instruction
1. Everything is good moderately! The causticity can quite be compared to burning pepper: its tiny pinch will impact to a dish refined relish, but if though you will a little go too far - is it will be just impossible. Once you are fond, to lose over yourself control, and instead of an ironical sneer frankly flat, unsuccessful joke, sometimes on the verge of the true rudeness immediately will turn out. And you do not want to gain reputation of the narrow-minded, narrow rude fellow, the truth?
2. You have to be helped by sense of taste, a step. Alas, it is given not all by nature. Therefore if you are deprived of these feelings, do not even try to needle! Ostrosloviye in something it is similar to talent: either it is, or it is absent, and here no diligence will help.
3. You do not become personal at all, do not choose a causticity subject physical defects of the opponent (lameness, excess weight, baldness, etc.) which especially comprehended it troubles, problems. You will achieve opposite result. The public sympathy will be then on its party, and on your share the condemnation for "callousness" and "callousness" will get. Subsequently you will become derelicts and the nasty person.
4. Pay to the person attention to tone. Your voice should not sound mischievously at all, or is malicious, or triumphantly. The best option is to speak politely, quietly, even with obviously distinguishable participation, goodwill. At most, what is admissible – slightly noticeable irony measured with a pharmaceutical accuracy. The effect of "an ice shower" will be that big.
5. Also remember that the causticity, as well as any weapon, has to be applied not without discrimination but only in due time, in a serious occasion! Otherwise, you are waited by reputation of the sharp fellow who is not able to stand for himself, and the misanthrope obsessed with a heap of complexes.