The ability to understand people from the birth is given not all. Often moves us the first impression about the person or the data which are earlier heard about it. Such information is quite often deceptive and interferes with perception of other person.
How to understand people at acquaintance?
A lot of things can be learned about the person, thanks to ability ""to read"" its mimicry and gestures.
If the directed hand for handshake is turned palm up — the person is sincere, down — a lot of things conceal.
Pay attention to eyes of the person as they can tell a lot of things about the real emotions of the person which cannot be hidden, not for nothing eyes are called a window to the soul.
It is worth mentioning also gestures of the person. For example, 7 main gestures of the person telling a lie were allocated.
Better to understand character of the person, ask, than he is fond, the hobby can tell about activity of the interlocutor, orientation of interests, will give many new subjects for a conversation.
The mysteries of art to understand people are transferred in a proverb "Tell me who your friend — and I will tell who you are", usually similar is attracted. Knowing that the person spends time in the doubtful company, you should not expect full honesty of readiness to come to the rescue from it. The man having 2–3 old loyal friends always will secure and will help at the heavy moment.
How to learn to understand people?
Understanding of others comes with experience, and it is, as we know, a son of mistakes difficult. The personality is formed of trifles, having taken for a habit to notice keywords in phrases, to look at fleeting gestures, or having remembered the favourite brand of cars, it is possible to judge such traits of character as courtesy, compliance, practicality. Rate of a conversation will prompt as quickly the interlocutor thinks and makes decisions, selection of words — how well thinks over each step. In process and upon completion of communication it is important to analyze what thoughts were informed by the interlocutor and whether the sense enclosed in words meets at you. Simply speaking, the phrase "shines the sun now" means to one interlocutor that now put, and another will accept it as sign of good warm weather. In such cases will be useful to ask again and specify to avoid the subsequent disagreements.
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