The majority of children's fairy tales come to an end with the fact that spouses lived long and happily, and died in one day. Hearing such fairy tales since the childhood, many of us would like to transfer this ideal option of succession of events and to the real life.
It is required to you
- Understanding, patience, optimism, tranquility, humour.
Instruction
1. Mutual understanding – the key to success of the long relations. Always it is necessary to remember that your half has the right to own opinion, hobbies, thoughts and feelings. To try to understand the person and to accept him it what it is, very important. Not to change the loved one under itself, to be able to look critically at itself and the shortcomings, whenever possible in itself to correct something.
2. Criticism – only constructive. Less. And it is benevolent. It is impossible to press on the person at all or to criticize him unreasonably. So not to construct the long relations. It is pleasant to whom to listen constantly in the address to reproaches?
3. Common interests and hobbies. Try to find as much as possible common ground with the spouse. It does not mean that it is necessary to refuse own hobbies, but also the interests of the soulmate should be considered. It is better to divide them or at least to support the spouse in his hobby.
4. To try to keep warmth and love. You should not think that in 20-30 years the kind tender words and kisses will become necessary to your loved one less. Perhaps, even on the contrary, it will need in them much more, than in young years. Therefore the feelings need to be shown always, during any opportunity to try to show how you love the spouse.