Often lovers quail before an object of the passion and cannot take courage in any way to offer the serious relations. If you one of such timid young men, but want to achieve happiness, you should collect all the will in a fist and to work.
Instruction
1. Most of young people, hesitating to offer the relations to the girl, first of all are afraid of refusal. Frightens guys and humiliation in case of refusal of their men's advantage, and fear that the girl will not want to communicate with them any more and that she can deride the unfortunate lover. If the similar fear does not allow you to take the first step, do not rush straight away. For a start invite your ladylove to an appointment – in cafe, cinema or just to walk on the city. Your meeting can be friendly with a subtle shade of flirtation. Gradually approach the girl and do not forget to please her with pleasant trifles – present her a bouquet of flowers, box of chocolates, warm mittens if business happens in the winter. Seeing that the girl derives pleasure from time spent together, with pleasure accepts gifts and responds to courtings, you can kiss at last the beloved and invite her to you home to a cup of tea.
2. If you are morally ready to offer the relations to the pleasant girl, but would like to make it unusually so that she definitely could not refuse you, try something extreme. Jump together with a parachute and at height cry out: "I want you to be my girl!", or make it during descent on kayaks, outvoicing noise of the mountain river. If you with your half are not so extreme, you can tell it on a skating rink, having beautifully landed to the girl under legs.
3. The offer to meet can be arranged romantically. Invite the girl to horse walk, or to walk by motor ship. Perhaps, you know the beautiful place where couples in love like to stroll in the city. The romantic situation will promote the consent of your beloved.
4. If you are less than eighteen years old, you can ask directly your girlfriend whether to become agrees she your girl.