The family plays a huge role in life of most of people. All want to have the loving spouse and beautiful children. To preserve the peace and rest in family, it is necessary to work hard, first of all, over himself.
Instruction
1. The house – the place where the person comes to have a rest after heavy day of work. And if it there meets dissatisfied the wife who constantly reproaches with something to it hardly wants to come back there. Therefore, first, try to avoid the conflicts. For this purpose it is enough to learn to treat shortcomings or mistakes of the spouse softly and indulgently. You should not swear because of each trifle – to explain or hint rather simply quietly at what is required to be made.
2. Secondly, avoid charges of members of household of anything. It is unlikely it will be pleasant to someone when it is abused. Avoid rough words – everything can be solved much more quietly. To constrain the emotions at a conversation with the spouse, try to sort out the relations not right after you faced some problem, and in half an hour - hour. So you will have time for cooling down and to properly consider a situation. Before a conversation try to explain for yourself why so left, to acquit the spouse, and then you will be able quietly to discuss everything, without excess charges and abuse.
3. Thirdly, do not forget that each person is a personality with the desires and interests. Have respect for opinion of all members of your family including to children. They are only not obliged to do at all that it is necessary for you according to the first requirement. The same concerns also the husband.
4. Fourthly, try to diversify the free time and more often do family exits at cinema, cafe or circus. Go with family and friends on a picnic out of town – so you will perfectly have a rest, receive the mass of impressions and you will approach family.
5. Fifthly, think up some family traditions which will be able to unite all your family. It can be the special holiday different from all others, for example, Day of Family. Do not forget to note all dates, important for you, not only birthdays, but also day of acquaintance to the spouse, a wedding anniversary, etc. Please house even if with small gifts more often.
6. The main pledge of happy family life – love and respect for the relatives.