The female friendship can be both firm and true, and changeable. In spite of the fact that all women differ from each other in characters, the impulsiveness and emotionality is peculiar to all of them, and it becomes frequent the cause of quarrels between girlfriends. If girls do not wish to meet halfway each other, perhaps, having forgotten the initial cause of a quarrel, you can try to reconcile them. How to return friendship and to eliminate hostility?
Instruction
1. Try to join in life of both girlfriends and to gradually unite them. It is possible if at each of girlfriends the favorable and friendly relations remained with you.
2. Serially come on a visit to each of girls to have a heart-to-heart talk and to spend together time. Perhaps, with you will try to speak about a quarrel – try to be objective and passionless and do not begin a conversation about a quarrel on own initiative.
3. Tell each girl that you plan to organize a house holiday or a celebration, and would like to see each of them there, but because of their prolonged quarrel you have no such opportunity as it will cause an intense situation and offenses.
4. Try to act directly – issue to each girlfriend the invitation to this celebration. Any of them will not want to offend and upset you and will come, despite presence of the second girl. Perhaps, in the weakened and festive situation of the girlfriend will reconcile.
5. Warn them that if they try to quarrel and spoil to you a holiday, you any more never invite them to yourself. Act carefully and elaborately not to cause hostility in both girls.
6. If each of girlfriends has children, invite also them too – children do not pay attention to disagreements of parents, and the girlfriend, having seen that their children play with pleasure together, will begin to approach. Stage team games and contests for children, suggest them to mothers to join in a game. Willy-nilly they will begin to play together.
7. Anyway, reconciliation depends only on desire of girlfriends. If you as a result understand that their relations finally sputtered out, in attempts of reconciliation there will be no sense.