The relations in family have to develop on trust. For various reasons it can be lost. To return openness and confidence to the relations between spouses, it is necessary to prove to the loved one the love, devotion and fidelity.
Instruction
1. Not easy happens to trust in the partner, for example, after treason. Always it seems that he is not absolutely frank with you, something keeps back, etc. To return former trusting relationship, it is necessary to discuss the reasons of current situation, to try to understand what caused treason, to reveal for itself the misses and mistakes. If you become reserved and will save offenses, then safe resolving the situation hardly should be expected.
2. First of all, solve for yourself whether you should continue the relations with the person who lost your trust. If you make the positive decision, then be ready to listen and understand the person. It is necessary to learn to recognize also the wrongfulness.
3. Be not afraid to ask forgiveness for the event sincerely. That again there were former warmth, credibility, it is necessary to allow other person to facilitate the soul. It is very important to learn not apologize, but also to forgive.
4. Learn not only recognize and analyze the mistakes, but also to draw a conclusion from difficult situations. It is necessary in the future to be sure that similar problems will not arise in your family.
5. Be open for new, release the past and do not torment the loved one with reproaches and mistrust subsequently. Having discussed a situation once, do not come back to it at any suitable case.
6. Show patience and understanding. Calm down and take a detached view of all event.
7. ""Be not obsessed"" with the same. Find for yourself some hobby. And better be engaged in some interesting affairs together: you go into the woods, into the park, go to fishing. Try to spend more time together. It is possible to be sent, for example, on leave to the southern countries, to the sea.
8. Make joint plans for the future. Bring more romanticism in the relations. Remember the past: the first appointment, love, passion. Start everything anew, from scratch.